@sweebee
this one: http://www.ebay.com/itm/280932608891
or this one: http://www.ebay.com/itm/281407880577
But I think you are right in that a relais is safer than a switch.
But i cannot seem to be able to find the relay I want
- 5v (so it can be powered from USB)
- 433 Mhz superheterodyne